My family takes an annual trip to the Bahamas during March. It’s one of those vacations where relaxation is required by law. Drinks are delivered, to pool, beach, cabana, wherever you are and it is the only place on earth where I am known to nap.
The last two years of this trip, I was dealing with Melvin, and then Jake, dying. I almost didn’t go on the trip with Melvin because his prognosis was so grave. I ended up going because 1. I was leaving him in the best care (seriously, I had about 40 people/vets checking on him hourly, he was too busy to die) 2. The oncologist said the odds of him dying in those few days were extremely unlikely and 3. I cut my part of the trip to 3 days. I went because, if Melvin could be dying suddenly, it was a reminder how short our time on earth can be. I went because the people I take this trip with are equally important to me and you never know when it could be the last trip we all take together.
Wow, that paragraph was depressing.
Leaving Jake last year was difficult, but his prognosis was WAY different. I knew we had time.
Suffice it to say, the last two years in the Bahamas, there was a lot of crying on my part. This year, I will be leaving a healthy Doug. That has not stopped me from saying to him several times leading up to this trip, If you die, I’ll kill you.
The notes I left when it was just Melvin were long, partly because I’m crazy, but also because I had to outline a ton of ‘what ifs’. What to do if he ate something he shouldn’t have and had a reaction. What to do if his colitis flared up. What to do if his tick disease flared up. Etc. Etc. Etc. The notes for Jake were long, partly because crazy doesn’t just go away, and mostly because he had A LOT OF INSTRUCTIONS! Peeing, meatballs, diapers, mobility, ramps, wheelchair, stroller, rashes, MRSP, googly eye drops. The list goes on.
In sitting down to write Doug’s first note, it was fairly short. I looked at it and thought, I must be missing something. The majority of the note is how to get Doug to settle and snuggle, not really instructions for his care. For the first time, I have a dog that wakes up, is a fairly basic dog during the day, goes to bed, repeat. Since the note wasn’t long enough, I padded it with a little extra crazy, just for good measure.
Our dog walker, Denise, is staying here with Doug. She gets Doug. She is so patient with him that sometimes I have to tell her to be a bit more stern with him, like when he is hanging from her scarf with his mouth. I have complete faith that all will be great here, and in the Bahamas, and I’m looking forward to a tear-free getaway.
This year, Melvin and Jake will be with me. They are the beauty I see all around me. They are in every sunset and every sunrise.
Have a great week!
One of my favorite pre-Bahamas-trip memories – when Jakey was mobile and climbed into my suitcase.
Have a wonderful vacation!
Have a great vacation! You deserve it!
Safe travels, have a glorious time!
I hope you have a wonderful vacation!
You deserve a wonderful and worry free vacation. I love your words about taking Melvin and Jake with you. Like you I went away last year around this time, worried to death that my dog Cody wouldn’t be there when I got home. Before that it was two of my other dogs, Sophie and Shadow. Now my family includes two healthy young dogs and my list of instructions for the pet sitter will be to have a good time while I am away.
Hahah! Love it!
Awww, have a great trip!!!
Love those photos, seeing Jake again makes me smile. Have an absolutely wonderful holiday 🙂
I loved seeing those photos too. ❤
Hope it’s glorious!
Have a wonderful trip!!!
Enjoy your getaway . . . and those cocktails . . . and please share pictures when you return so we can all have a little vicarious pleasure. I think my human mommy looks forward to this trip as much as you do. 😉
You deserve this lady! I am so glad you are able to go (with a little less crazy weighing you down) and have capable hands in which to leave Doug!!
I was supposed to go to Italy with Sam this week, but I just couldn’t do it. So far, she’s been fine – I could have probably gone. More time with dogs > less time with dogs.