Hi mom. It’s me, Jake.
Tomorrow marks one year since you and I were together.
I miss you.
I watch you cry. The same way I watched you cry after Melvin left us. I don’t know how to help you, I didn’t know back then either. But you knew. You always knew what to do.
From the first few months I was there and I would sit far away from you and Melvin because I was not used to interacting with anyone, you would say take your time bud, we are here forever. And when I slowly inched toward you, you didn’t smother me. You knew I needed space. That seems like so long ago.
All I remember now, is the love.
You did that. You were the first person to truly love me. I didn’t make it easy sometimes. I made sweet love to all the rugs. I tormented Melvin. I thought for sure you would give me away like my first family did. But you never even suggested it. You just giggled, or said oh Jakey (and few absolutely nots, but I forgive you for those).
I never knew what unconditional love was until that day my legs stopped working. I was so scared. Remember how big my eyes got? Melvin was scared too but he ran right up to me. I mean he could have run away but instead he used his nose to try and lift me up. That was the moment with him, that I knew I had a soulmate. I know you were scared too and your eyes were leaky but you never left my side. You picked me up and I felt all the love in the universe through your embrace. Even when you said the vets said I had a wonky spine and would one day be paralyzed, you said this is why we found each other. We were meant to be, Jakey.
And then you made it ok.
You got up with me every night when my bed got wet. You wiped me off so gently, I thought you’d be mad but you just sang to me. Even when the meatball factory started having odd hours, you still said it was ok. I used to think you were really strange, but now I know, you’re what love looks like.
You refused to go on walks without me. You said these are family walks and the whole family must go. Enter in my buggy! I have never felt so boss as I did in that buggy. Me and my Melvin man, ruling the hood!
You made me believe I could fly.
You and Melvin are my whole world. You are all I know. When Melvin left us, and it was just you and me, well I don’t know how I would have gotten through that time without you. I know your eyes were leaky for him but you never missed any of my moments.
Every time I woke up, you were always there. When I couldn’t do something, you made it so I could. When my legs stopped working more, you carried me. I can still feel your arms hold me. I can still hear you say I got you bud as you kissed my head. The only thing more special about you holding me is how gently you would put me down and encourage me to try again.
I love you.
I love Melvin, it’s true. But please don’t ever think I loved him more than you. I wanted to come see him, I just sorta thought I could then come back to you. Now we both sit and watch over you. Max too. I know you and Melvin have your own language, and me and you never really had that, but I also know you don’t need two dogs with the same super power. I have my own connection with you; I will always be your baby.
You are my only human. Not just the only one who was ever there for me, but the only one I would ever want. You are my beginning and my end and all the love in-between.
I want to thank you for knowing. That day when I got outside and I sat in the mulch, staring at a yard I could no longer run in. Staring at a space where Melvin and I used to be. You watched me. You even took a picture. And after you put the phone down, and you were leaning in the doorway, I looked at you, and you knew. You told me you would never let cancer win. Your eyes were so sad but I saw so much love in your face and I knew you understood. After everything I asked of you, the love you showed me at the end, well…those moments are ours. And they made my life complete.
Thank you for seeing me through what you did. I will never stop returning the favor of watching over you. I will never close both googly eyes until you are here with me (NO RUSH THOUGH!!).
For now, I will be with Melvin (and Max), but just like on earth, we are always your little family. Our love lives on. In you.
Love, your Jakey.
P.S. I love you so much.
Oh my goodness! Thank heavens Jake throws some humor in there because I was just about a horrible puddle at my desk. Thinking of you and praying that tomorrow brings you more joyful memories than it does sadness.
Sorry for sparking desk crying! We’ve been there too! xoxo
Thank you, Tracy. So. Much.
Thank YOU for coming along for the journey. xoxo
Oh the little oasis at my desk……Tracey, you LOVE so hard and sooooooo sweet, patient, kind …I could go. You ROCK!
Thank you, love! xoxo
Jake inspires me. xoxo
Oh Jakey, you know how to make a girl cry. You are so very special and obviously you and your Mum were meant to be because she is very special too. Love and hugs x
The paragraph that starts, “I want to thank you for knowing”? Oh, the tears. I hope one day, no time soon, I get a beautiful letter like this from Miss Harper Lee. Love to you for showing Jake and all of your readers what true love looks like.
Suzanne (Miss Harper Lee’s mommy)
You will get a love filled letter for sure. But not for many, many years! ❤️
I can feel the love ❤️
Ah! I have tears in my own eyes… Beautiful <3